2011年12月26日 星期一

Nine great benefits of reciting the Quran




Indeed to reflect on Allah’s verses is a form of worship that will draw one close to Allah Most High. This reflection is not a reckless and wandering one, rather it includes a study of the classical tafseer of the verses being pondered over, as this would fulfil Ibnul-Qayyim’s great advice, “Such as reflecting over a book which a person has memorised and he expounds it so that he may understand what its author intends by it.”
Indeed the Book of Allah is not a book like any other, it is the timeless Speech of Allah, not a created thing, the study guide for life and death and what comes after. Therefore it deserves a more careful study than anyone else’s speech. It necessitates that its reader return to the early narrations of those who witnessed its revelation and heard its explanation by the one deputed by Allah to rehearse and explain His Words to humanity (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam). For if one would try to ponder over the meanings of the verses without having done this study, then surely the filth of the time that he lives in and his ignorance of the correct application and understanding that the early Muslims had would cause him to understand some things not intended by Allah Most High, and therefore he would go astray, thinking to be worshipping Allah. So every sincere Muslim who hopes to earn Allah’s Love breciting and reflecting over Allah’s Book, then let him hold tight to the meanings explained by the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam), and those taught by the companions and their immediate followers, and the early scholars of Islam.

So dear brother and sister Muslim! Know that reciting and pondering over the Book of Allah, devoting your time regularly to its study and implementation has tremendous benefits in this life and the Next, so let us now look to just a few of them to attach ourselves more firmly to Allah’s Majestic Words. Each benefit stands as enough of an encouragement to shun any laziness we have and dedicate ourselves to the Qur’an.

1 - Reading and reflecting over the Qur’an fulfils an Islamic duty.

Indeed the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) summarised this Religion with his statement: “The Religion is naseehah (sincerity)!” So then Tameem ibn Aws, may Allah be pleased with him, then said, “We asked, ‘To whom?’” He said: “To Allah, HIS BOOK, His Messenger, the leaders of the people, and their common folk.” [Muslim] The sincerity that is due to the Book of Allah includes its regular recitation, learning the rules of tajweed and reciting it beautifully, learning about its tafseer and the reasons for its revelation, affirming that it is the Truth, the perfect Speech of Allah and not part of the creation, honoring it and defending it, abiding by the orders and prohibitions found in it, teaching it and calling to it. [See Jaami’ul-’Uloom wal-Hikam of Ibn Rajab Al-Hambalee] So by reading and reflecting over the Qur’an, one fulfills an obligation and is rewarded for that. Upon fulfilling this obligation, the Qur’an then becomes a proof for him on the Day of Judgment! And that is our second benefit we will take by embracing this Noble Book...

2 - The Qur’an will be a proof for us on the Day of Judgment.

This is due to the statement of the Messenger: “And the Qur’an is a proof for you or against you.” [Muslim] So one of two things will occur with this proof, the Book of Allah. It will either be in your favor, a proof for you on the Day when you will need every single good deed, or it will be something standing against you, the very Speech of your Creator, a proof against you! Who could be saved from the terrors of that Day if Allah’s own Speech is against him?!?! Think carefully, dear Muslim brother or sister, about your position with the Qur’an! Are you neglecting it, contradicting it, being heedless of its orders and prohibitions, are you thinking deeply over it?! Will it be on your side on the Day of Judgment.?! O Allah! We ask you, by Your Glorious Speech and the rest of your beautiful Names and Attributes, to make the Qur’an a proof for us! O Allah! Don’t make the Qur’an a proof against us on that Day, and save us from the hellfire! For if Allah makes the Qur’an a proof in our favour on that Day, then it would also be an intercessor for us, when NO intercession will take place except by His Permission.

3 - The Qur’an will intercede for us on the Day of Judgment.

The proof: Aboo Umaamah relates that the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) said: “Read the Qur’an, for verily it will come on the Day of Standing as an intercessor for its companions.” [Muslim]

4 - Your status in this life will be raised.

In Saheeh Muslim, we find a lovely story, about how a man from the people of Jannah, ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab, understood this principle. Some men came to question him during his khilaafah about the leadership of Makkah, they asked, “Who do you use to govern Makkah?” He said, “Ibn Abzaa.” They asked, “And who is Ibn Abzaa?” Umar replied, “A freed slave from those we freed.” They remarked, “You left a freed slave in charge of the people of the Valley (the noble tribes of the Quraysh)!?!?” So he answered them, “Verily he is a reader of the Book of Allah and is knowledgeable about the obligations of the Muslims. Haven’t you heard the statement of your Messenger: “Verily Allah raises some people by this Book and lowers others by it.”

5 - You will be from the best of the people.

‘Uthmaan, may Allah be pleased with him, said that the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) said: “The best of you are the ones who learn the Qur’an and teach it to others” [Al-Bukhari]

6 - There are ten rewards for each letter you recite from the Qur’an.

As an authentic hadith in At-Tirmithee proves: “Whoever reads a letter from the Book of Allah, he will have a reward. And that reward will be multiplied by ten. I am not saying that “Alif, Laam, Meem” is a letter, rather I am saying that “Alif” is a letter, “laam” is a letter and “meem” is a letter.” So increase your recitation of the Qur’an to gain these merits, and to gain the following merit as well.

7 - The reciters of the Qur’an will be in the company of the noble and obedient angels.

‘Aa’ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, relates that the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) said: “Verily the one who recites the Qur’an beautifully, smoothly, and precisely, he will be in the company of the noble and obedient angels. And as for the one who recites with difficulty, stammering or stumbling through its verses, then he will have TWICE that reward.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

So dear brother or sister Muslim, do not let the Shaytaan give you false excuses, such as “I am not an ‘Arab,” or “Its not my language.” This hadith is a firm proof against these whisperings. Dedicate yourself to the Book of Allah, whether you are an ‘Arab or not! The excuses have been eliminated and the pathway has been cleared for you to embrace the Book of Allah without holding back or offering excuses! And surely you will not hesitate to seek a teacher or a study circle for the Qur’an once you hear the last and perhaps greatest benefits of reading and contemplating over the Qur’an...

8 - Your position in Paradise is determined by the amount of Qur’an you memorize in this life!

‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Amr ibn Al-’Aas heard the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) saying: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: Read and elevate (through the levels of the Paradise) and beautify your voice as you used to do when you were in the dunyaa! For verily, your position in the Paradise will be at the last verse you recite!” [Aboo Daawood and At-Tirmithee, saheeh]

9 - The Qur’an will lead you to Paradise!

The Prophet said: “The Qur’an is an intercessor, something given permission to intercede, and it is rightfully believed in. Whoever puts it in front of him, it will lead him to Paradise; whoever puts it behind him, it will steer him to the Hellfire.” [An authentic hadith found in At-Tabaraanee, on the authority of ‘Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood]

Know, dear brother or sister, that these nine benefits from the many benefits available can only be attained by a sincere commitment to the Book of Allah, not by a person’s mere statement, “I love the Qur’an, it’s beautiful.” Rather the heart must be sincerely attached to Allah’s Book and the limbs and tongue will follow in this attachment. You must know that we only mentioned a few of the numerous benefits of reading and reflecting over the Qur’an. There are many benefits that await your reading in the Qur’an and books of hadith, like the chapter of the Qur’an that will argue on your behalf in the grave, and that it is a physical healing, a source of rest and relaxation for your heart, among many other things. And Allah knows best. (Taken from Look 4 Islam)

2011年12月24日 星期六

Knowledge (‘Ilm)




Recently i try so hard to learn a good arabic

i hope what i am doing now will be benefit to my childern and
my community in the future

My Niat is oneday after i complete my study from realigion degree ,i would like
to promote islamic education in Taiwan..

We should make it to become more attractive and useful

insha ALLAH

may ALLAH grant us with a good knowledge and Aklaq

Ibn ‘Abbas reported, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said [to a group of companions]: “When you pass by the meadows of Paradise indulge freely in it! They said: O Messenger of Allah! What are the meadows of Paradise? He said: The circles of Knowledge (‘Ilm).” (At-Tabarani)

2011年12月18日 星期日

change




People change .Feelings change .
It doesn't mean that the love once shared wasn't true and real .It simply just means that sometimes when people grow ,they grow apart .

2011年12月15日 星期四

What is love?




Love is when Khadijah (R.A) spent her entire wealth on this Deen for the Man she loved... Love is when Muhammed (S.A.W) took the glass that Ayesha (R.A) drank from and put his lips on the exact place she put her's and then drank... Love is when Muhammed (S.A.W) had a race with Ayesha (R.A) and teased her when she lost... Love is when Muhammed (S.A.W) would take a bone that Ayesha (R.A) sucked meat from and would put his lips on that same place she chewed the meat from... Love is when Zainab (R.A) would sacrifice her most prized possession, her everything for her Husband... Real Love is not based on romance , candle light dinner and walks along the beach rather it is based On Respect , Compromise , Care And Trust....wake up people

2011年11月22日 星期二

The beautiful Advice from the Messenger of God




Anas Ibn Malik once mentioned that a Bedouin came to the Prophet and greeted him in the mosque. The Messenger of God asked the Bedouin where he was from and the Bedouin answered to the Messenger of God that he came from far away to ask questions on behalf of the Bedouin’s master. The following transpired as reported by Anas Ibn Malik:

I wish to be an intelligent man, what should I do?
The Prophet replied: FEAR ALLAH.

I wish to be a loyal servant to Allah and do what He wants me to do.
The Prophet replied: READ THE QURAN.

I wish to be enlightened and have peace of heart.
The Prophet replied: REMEMBER DEATH.

I wish to be protected against my enemies.
The Prophet replied: TRUST IN ALLAH.

I wish to follow the straight path.
The Prophet replied: DO GOOD TO OTHERS FOR ALLAH’S SAKE.

What should I do so that Allah will not abandon me.
The Prophet replied: DO NOT RESPOND TO THE DESIRES OF YOUR FLESH.

I wish to have a long life.
The Prophet replied: PRAISE AND THANK ALLAH ALWAYS.

I wish for prosperity.
The Prophet replied: BE IN A STATE OF ABLUTION AT ALL TIMES.

How can I save myself from hell fire?
The Prophet replied: PROTECT YOUR EYES AND YOUR TONGUE AND YOUR HANDS AND WHAT IS BELOW YOUR WAISTLINE AGAINST EVIL.

How can I cleanse myself from my sins?
The Prophet replied: SHED TEARS FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE AND REPENT BY UNDOING WHAT YOU HAVE DONE WRONG.

I wish to be a respectable person.
The Prophet replied: THEN DON’T ASK FOR ANYTHING FROM ANYBODY.

I wish to be honorable.
The Prophet replied: THEN DON’T DIVULGE THE WRONG DOINGS OF ANYONE.

What should I do to protect myself from the tortures of the grave?
The Prophet replied: RECITE THE SURAH MULK.

How should I calm my fear of the day of judgment?
The Prophet replied: REMEMBER ALLAH BEFORE YOU EAT ANYTHING AND BEFORE YOU SLEEP.

What should I do to feel the presence of Allah when I make my prayers?
The Prophet replied: GIVE THE UTMOST CARE IN TAKING YOUR ABLUTIONS AND IN BEING CLEAN AND PURE.

2011年11月21日 星期一

Just open The Quran, and READ !!! ◕ 只要打開古蘭經和唸它



We always ask something, but Indeed, Allâh has answered in the Quran
我們總是不斷提問很多事情 但的確安拉在古蘭經中給了我們所有的答案



★ We ask: "Why are we tested?"
我們問 : 為何我們會被考驗?
Allâh answers: ••► "Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: "We believe," and will not be tested. And We indeed tested those who were before them. And Allâh will certainly make (it) known (the truth of) those who are true, and will certainly make (it) known (the falsehood of) those who are liars,(although Allâh knows all that before putting them to test).
[Surah Al Ankaboot29:Ayat 2-3]

安拉在古蘭經中回答: 眾人以為他們得自由地說「我們已信到了」而不受考驗嗎? 我確以考驗在他們之前的人真主必定要知道說實話者,必定要知道說謊者。
(蜘蛛章 29 ;第 2-3 節)

★ We Ask: "Why could I not get what I desire?"
我們問 : 為何不能得到我們希望或想要的?

Allâh answers: ••► "May be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allâh knows but you do not know.
[Surah Al-Baqarah 2:Ayat 216]

安拉在古蘭經回答:「也許你們厭惡某件事,而那件事對你們是有益的,或許你們喜愛某一件事,而那件事對你們是有害的,真主知道而你們卻不知道」

(黃牛章2; 第216節)


★ We Ask: "Why is this burden so hard?"
我們問:為何這個考驗如此的艱難?

Allâh answers: ••► "Allâh burdens not a person beyond his scope."
[Surah Al-Baqarah 2: Ayat 286]

真主在古蘭經中回答:「真主只依個人的能力而加以責成」
(黃牛章2 ;第 286 節)

★ We Ask: "Why do i feel so frustrated?"
我們問: 為何我們會感到很沮喪?

Allâh answers: ••► "So do not become weak (against your enemy), nor be sad, and you will be superior (in victory) if you are indeed (true) believers."
[Surah Al-E-Imran 3 : Ayat 139]

真主在古蘭經回答:「你們不要灰心,不要憂愁,你們必佔優勢,如果你們是信道的人」
(儀姆蘭的家屬 章; 第 139 節)

★ We Ask: "How do i face this?"
我們問: 我該如何面對它 ?

Allâh answers: ••► "And seek help in patience and As-Salât (the prayer) and truly it is extremely heavy and hard except for Al-Khâshi'ûn [i.e. the true believers in Allâh - those who obey Allâh with full submission, fear much from His Punishment, and believe in His Promise (Paradise,) and in His Warnings (Hell, )]."
[Surah Al-Baqarah 2: Ayat 45]

真主在古蘭經回答:「你們當借堅忍和禮拜而求佑助,禮拜確是一件難事,但對恭敬的人卻不難」
(黃牛章2;第45節)

★ We Ask: "To Whom should i only put my hope?"
我們問 : 我們該把希望放在誰身上?

Allâh answers: ••► "Allâh is sufficient for me. Lâ ilâha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), in Him I put my trust and He is the Lord of the Mighty Throne."
[Surah At-Tawba (9): 129]

真主在古蘭經回答:「真主是能實我們滿足的,除祂之外,絕無應受崇拜的,我只信托安拉,安拉是有偉大的寶座」


★ We Ask: "What could i get from this all trials and tests?"
我們問 : 我會從這些考驗中得到些什麼?

Allâh answers: ••► "Verily, Allâh has purchased of the believers their lives and their properties for (the price) that theirs shall be the Paradise."
[Surah At-Tawba 9: Atay 111]
真主在古蘭經中回答: 「真主卻已用樂園換取信士們的生命和財產」

★ We Ask: "I can't take it anymore!"
我們問 : 我再也受不了!


Allâh answers: ••► "and never give up hope of Allâh's Mercy. Certainly no one despairs of Allâh's Mercy, except the people who disbelieve."
[Surah Yusuf 12: Ayat 87]
真主在古蘭經回答: 「你們不要絕望於真主的恩惠 ,只有不信道的人才絕望於真主的恩惠」

★ We Ask: "Till when should i be in this languish state?
我們問 : 這樣的狀況應該會持續多久?

Allâh answers: ••► "Verily, along with every hardship is relief, Verily, along with hardship is relief (i.e. there is one hardship with two reliefs, so one hardship cannot overcome two reliefs)"
[Surah Ash-Sharh 9: Ayat 5-6 ]
真主在古蘭經回答: 「與艱難相伴的卻是容易的」

♥ Alhamdulillâh !!! ♥

感謝真主 !!!!!

2011年11月9日 星期三

人類應該認識的真理





我們今天來談談大自然的一切來源,讓每個人了解人類也是大自然中的一份子,所以我們共同來研究,共同來了解自然界的一切奧妙和真理,以便認識這個世界的造物主---安拉

晝夜分明
天空地球的創造者--安拉(ALLAH),為了利於人們而創造了白天和夜間,就是讓人們工作與休息,這種有規律的輪轉,可以使人們了解這裡有很多的真理存在,讓人們去參悟。

古蘭經(Quran)第41章第39節上說 : 「白天雨夜晚,太陽與月亮,是安拉(ALLAH)的跡象,你們不要拜太陽和月亮,如果你們敬拜的話,你們就應該敬拜造化了這一切的安拉(ALLAH)」

古蘭經(Quran)第7章第54節上說 :「調養你們的安拉(ALLAH),在六日裡創造了天空與地面,然後合呼在(阿勒世)第八層天空 他以夜覆晝,並且以夜追逐,祂造化了日月星晨,一切都服從祂(ALLAH)的命令,的確唯有祂(ALLAH)執掌造化和命令,吉慶歸於安拉(ALLAH),世界的養育者」

自然界的創造者----安拉(ALLAH)為人類創造白天讓人們去勞務生產,找尋人們生活的來源來維持人們的健康,以太陽之光照耀大地,讓人們看清一切,以太陽之光度與熱量照耀要大地的一切生物,使生物長得茂盛,讓人們取出其中的精華,為人們享用。

安拉(ALLAH)以月亮照射出祥和的光度,使人們停止勞動生產,讓人們休息,使人們利用睡眠的時間回復人們的精力,準備第二天從事生產工作,這是安拉(ALLAH)給人類多麼大的恩惠。

安拉(ALLAH)又以星晨,讓人們明白方向,便利人在大地上行走時的指南,這一切的一切都是為了人類的衣、食 、住、 行而著想的,因此人們必須要了解大自然借一切生物的來源,因為自然界的ㄧ切生物並不是生長出來後就完了,而是它的生長過程,攝取營養,結成果實等等都是一種奧妙存在,我們都知道很多很多的生物並沒有得到人們的照顧,而是自生自長,尤其長得特別茂盛,這就說明了安拉的萬能。

2011年11月6日 星期日

Love of ALLAH

LOVE OF ALLAH is everything,,love everything for ALLAH'S sake .
if you love any thing more than HIM you will cry forever!

2011年10月31日 星期一

FIRST Ten Days of Dhul-Hijjah

All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the Worlds. May peace and blessings be upon the Chief of the Messengers, Muhammad.

Indeed it is a great favour and blessing from Allah that He has made for His righteous servants periods of time within which they can increase in good deeds to attain great rewards and one of these opportunistic periods is the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah (the final month of the Islamic Calendar, in which the hajj is performed).

Superiority of the FIRST Ten Days of Dhul-Hijjah

The excellence of these ten days have been mentioned in the Qur’ân and the Sunnah.

1. Allah says in the Qur’ân:

“By the dawn and by the ten nights … “ [Al-Qur'ân 89:1-2]

Ibn Kathîr said that “the ten nights” referred to here are the ten days of Dhul-Hijjah, and this opinion was also held by Ibn Abbâs, Ibn az-Zubair, Mujâhid and others.

2. The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said:

“There are no deeds as excellent as those done in these ten days.” They (the companions listening) said, “Not even Jihâd?” He, peace be upon him, said, “No, not even Jihâd except a man who goes forth endangering his life and wealth and does not return with anything.” [Recorded by al-Imâm al-Bukhârî]

3. Allah says: ” … and remember the name of Allah in the appointed days.” [Al-Qur'ân 2:203]

Ibn Abbâs and Ibn Kathîr said this means in the ten days of Dhul-Hijjah.

4. The Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, said:

“There are no other days that are as great as these in the sight of Allah, the Most Sublime. Nor are there any deeds more beloved to Allah then those that are done in these ten days. So increase in tahlîl (to say lâ illaha illallah), takbîr (to say allahu akbar) and tahmîd (to say alhumdulillâh).” [Reported by at-Tabarânî in al-Mu'jum al-Kabîr]

5. With regards to the noble companion Saîd bin Jubair, when the days of Dhul-Hijjah began he would strive to increase in good actions with great intensity until he was unable to increase anymore. [Reported by ad-Dârimî]

6. Ibn Hajar says in Fath al-Bârî:

“The most apparent reason for the ten days of Dhul-Hijjah being distinguished in excellence is due to the assembly of the greatest acts of worship in this period, i.e. salawât (prayers), siyâm (fasting), sadaqah (charity) and the hajj (pilgrimage). In no other periods do these great deeds combine.“

What are the recommended acts in these days?

1. The Prayer – It is highly recommended to perform the obligatory acts at their prescribed times (as early as possible) and to increase oneself in the superogatory acts, for indeed, this is what brings a person closer to their Lord. The Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, said:

“Upon you is to increase in your prostration to Allah, for verily you do not prostrate to Allah with even one prostration, except that He raises you in degrees and decreases your sins because of it.” [Reported by Muslim]

2. Fasting – This has been mentioned as one of the acts of righteousness where Hanbada ibn Khâlid reports on the authority of his wife who reports that some of the wives of the Prophet, peace be upon him, said:

The Prophet, upon whom be peace, would fast on the ninth of Dhul-Hijjah, the day of Âshûra and three days in every month. [Recorded by Ahmad, Abu Dâwûd, an-Nisâî and others]

Al-Imâm an-Nawawî said that fasting in these ten days is extremely recommended.



3. Saying allahu akbar; lâ illaha illallah and alhamdulillâh – It is found in the aforementioned narration of Ibn ‘Umar:

“So increase yourselves in saying lâ illaha illallah, allahu akbar and alhamdulillâh.”

Al-Imâm Bukhârî, may Allah have mercy on him, said:

“Ibn ‘Umar and Abû Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with them both, used to go out to the markets in the ten days saying the takbîr causing the people to follow them in this action.”

He also said:

“Umar ibn al-Khattâb used to say the takbîr in his minaret in Mina, whereupon the people of the mosque hearing ‘Umar, would start to say the takbîr as would the people in the markets until the whole of Mina was locked in glorifying Allah.”

Ibn ‘Umar used to say the takbîr in Mina during these ten days and after prayers, whilst on his bed, in his tent, in his gathering and whilst walking. What is recommended is to say the takbîr aloud due to the fact that ‘Umar ibn al-Khattâb, his son and Abû Hurayrah used to do likewise, may Allah be pleased with them all.

Strive with us O Muslims in reviving this sunnah that has become lost in these times and it was almost forgotten, even amongst the people of righteousness and goodness all of which is unfortunately in opposition to what the best of generations were upon (preserving and maintaining the superogatory acts).

There are a number of ways of making takbîr that have been narrated by the companions and their followers and from these ways is the following:

- Allahu akbar, allahu akbar, allahu akbar kabîrun.

- Allahu akbar, allahu akbar, lâ ilaha illallah, wallahu akbar, wallahu akbar, wa lillahil hamd.

- Allahu akbar, allahu akbar, allahu akbar, lâ ilaha illallah, wallahu akbar, allahu akbar wa lillâhil hamd.


4. Fasting on the day of ‘Arafah – Fasting has been affirmed on the day of ‘Arafah, where it has been confirmed from the Prophet, peace be upon him, that he said regarding fasting on the day of ‘Arafah:

“Be content with the fact that Allah will expiate for you your sins for the year before (the day of ‘Arafah) and the year after (the day of ‘Arafah).” [Reported by Muslim]

However, whoever is at ‘Arafah as a pilgrim then fasting is not expected of him, as the Prophet, peace be upon him, stopped at ‘Arafah to eat.


Source: http://www.sunnahonline.com/library/hajj/0010.htm

2011年10月22日 星期六

人生並沒有刪除鍵,請珍惜




人生有許多珍貴的東西,是值得我們一生回憶的;但也有許多值得放棄的東西,是值得我們去刪除的。有人說,人生沒有回頭鍵;也有人說,人生沒有刪除鍵。

  在人生的旅途中,我們有很多的時間都是在回憶中度過的,盡管回憶讓我們痛苦過,悲傷過,快樂過,幸福過。但更多是讓我們明白了很多的道理,人生沒有後悔藥,人生沒有回頭路,人生沒有刪除鍵。

  曾經想忘記很多的不愉快,忘記很多的痛苦,忘記很多不值得回憶的事,


忘記很多不值得回憶的人。但心緒總在不定的時間裡想起不定的事,也許是在一剎那,也許只在一秒鐘,也許只在一轉身,也許只在一個眼神裡,也許只在一個笑容裡,所有的記憶就會像風一樣吹過心房,不是你想不想的問題,也不是你愛不愛的問題,它只是一種意念,剎那間的感動,剎那間的凝聚。

  有人說,過去的就讓它永遠過去吧,希望總在前方。有些事的確是我們應該忘記的,它只能存在於你的心裡,是一種教訓,是一種經驗,亦是一種財富。

  有人說,在感情的世界裡是沒有刪除鍵的,我很同意這種看法。因為感情這東西,的確讓人歡喜讓人憂。盡管有很多的人都在說,放棄是一種美麗,放棄是一種更深的愛。但我還是想對朋友說:“放棄應該放棄的感情是對自己也是對所愛的人最大的尊重,但同時也是對自己對所愛的人最大的一種傷害。如果為了尊重就放棄,如果為了傷害就不要放棄。”生命是無聲的,但我們的心卻是流動的。感情是強求不到的,也是可遇不可求的一種機遇。

  在感情的世界裡,有你的快樂,有你的牽掛,有你的思念,有你的聲音,更有你的生命,所以你是幸福的。對一個有生命力的人來說,他永遠都是快樂的,而對一個懦弱的人來說,他永遠是痛苦的;對一個有生命力的人來說,他的生活富有激情和感動,對一個懦弱的人來說,他的生活永遠都沒有太多的色彩。總而言之,樂極生悲不足悲,最可悲的是從來不曾想快樂過,平平淡淡,平平安安是福是禍只有自己心裡最明白。

2011年10月17日 星期一

他不愛你、這段關係就沒意思。肯放手、就是愛自己




1、不要在一件彆扭的事上糾纏太久,糾纏久了,你會煩,會痛,會厭,會累,會神傷,會心碎。實際上,到最後,你不是跟事過不去,而是跟自己過不去。無論多彆扭,你都要學會抽身而退。不要因為去絕美風景的路上偶遇了一條臭水溝,而壞了欣賞美的心境,而耽誤了其它的美,要想想你為什麼來這裡。

2、很佩服這類女孩子:當她發現對方不是真心喜歡她,她可以立刻灑脫的分手。其他女人,可能會繼續自己騙自己,一個人苦撐。真正有智慧的女孩子明白愛情是怎麼一回事:愛情,要兩情相悅。你愛他,他不愛你,這段關係就沒意思。肯放手,就是愛自己。耐心一點,等待那個真正兩情相悅的人吧。

3、總有那麼一個人,不管他以前如何對你,你總會找到原諒他的理由。
4、單身意味著你足夠堅強,有足夠耐心去等待那個值得擁有你的人。
5、如果你討厭我,我一點也不介意,我活著不是為了取悅你。
6、當你認為自己一無所有時,至少你還有寶貴的時間。要有“勝敗兵家事不期,包羞忍恥是男兒。江東子弟多才俊,捲土重來未可知”的霸王氣魄!

7、如果我不在乎你,我不會為你笑;不會變得這麼脆弱;不會在意你做的每件事;不會靜靜的想著你發呆;不會記住你說的每句話;不會為你心痛;不會珍惜與你在一起的時候;不會總是不由自主的想起你;不會這麼輕易地讓痛苦折磨自己;不會為了一些小事跟你爭執;這一切只因為我在乎你……

8、每個男人一生中會有這樣兩個女人,一個留在一輩子裡偶爾想念,一個柴米油鹽裡過一輩子。女人們,你們願意做哪一種?

9、吵架說的話有90%都是假的。女生喜歡嘴硬,叫你走開,但你繼續哄下去她會很開心。女生一氣之下就跑,其實她很希望你在後面跟著她,要是沒看到有人她會很失望。她說習慣了,其實想讓你知道她失望透了,所以要說對不起,我改。女生有時候說分手,是因為知道你會挽回,所以要死皮賴臉去哄她,要讓她知道你還很愛她。

10、如果一個人向你表白,無論如何請珍惜他/她對你的愛,即使只能做普通朋友,或許一個人純真的表白不會再有第二次。也許,愛,不是尋找一個完美的人;而是,要學會用完美的眼光,欣賞一個不完美的人。牽了手,就不要隨便說分手。

11、幸福女人的十個密碼:一個你愛的人;兩個愛你的人;三分慵懶;四個朋友;五個工作日;六分浪漫;七分靈氣;八分智慧;九分獨立;十分熱情。

12、不要因為沒有陽光,而不走進春天。不要因為沒有歌聲,而放棄自己的追求。不要因為沒有掌聲,而丟掉自己的理想。其實每一條都通往陽光的大道,都充滿坎坷。每一條通向理想的途徑,都充滿了艱辛與汗水!

13、不知道什麼時候起,不聯繫朋友,不聯繫同學。沒有電話,不發短信,收不到郵件,心裡卻有掛念。習慣掛著FB,就這麼一直掛著。我不說話,也沒人和我說話。都說世界小了,可是兩顆心的距離,卻越來越遠……

14、誰曾從誰的青春里走過,留下了笑靨;誰曾在誰的花季裡停留,溫暖了想念;誰又從誰的雨季裡消失,氾濫了眼淚。青春的寂寞是生命的點綴;沒有寂寞的青春是悲哀的;然而寂寞的青春不是沒有幸福,而是我們不懂幸福。

2011年10月2日 星期日

懦弱

很多人不願意表達自己的情感

因為深怕改變現在的關係

寜可放棄得到的機會 選擇守候

最後只會責怪當自己的懦弱

2011年9月29日 星期四

期盼

要想走進一個女人的心裡,光有喜歡和愛是不夠的,你必須要懂她:要懂她逞強裡的柔弱,給她精神上的支撐;要懂她快樂里的憂傷,給她心靈上的呵護;要懂她的蠻橫不講理,準確回應她眼中的期盼;要懂她心路走向何方,和她風雨中一起走……她的要求其實也不多,她只是想找一個完全懂她的愛人。

2011年9月26日 星期一

秋天

晚安♥

每到星期一,真的很不想起床...一直賴床賴床賴床~~

今天早上差點就要遲到了...= =

每天都要很有精神的生活

外面的天氣涼涼的

我真的好喜歡秋天唷

真的很適合談戀愛的季節

不過我所遇到的都是不對時機

為什麼你老是沒發現到我呢

愛情


感覺寧靜安逸的旋律中

卻有種強烈的感情

像杯濃郁的奶茶

慢慢感覺她的芬芳,而不會急著喝掉

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvVBbof9Sws

2011年9月22日 星期四

Destiny




What is destined will reach you, even if it be underneath two mountains. What is not destined, will not reach you, even if it be between your two lips!"
— An Arabic proverb

2011年9月21日 星期三

six mannerisms are gathered in a woman




“If six mannerisms are gathered in a woman, her goodness is perfected: Guarding the five prayers, yielding to her husband, pleasing her Lord, guarding her tongue from backbiting and gossip, forsaking worldly possessions, and being patient following a tragedy.” [Ahmad ibn Harb]

2011年9月19日 星期一

Halal and Haram




If you can't be happy with that which is HALAL, you may never find happiness in anything that is HARAM.

Remember Allah




"O ye who believe! Remember Allah with much remembrance; and glorify Him morning and evening."
(Al Quran 41-42)

O ye who believe! Let not your wealth nor your children distract you from remembrance of Allah. Those who do so, they are the losers.
(Al Quran 63:9)

Shaytaan (Satan) has overpowered them. So he has made them forget the remembrance of Allah. They are the party of Shaytaan (Satan). Verily, it is the party of Shaytaan (Satan) that will be the losers!
(Al Quran 58:19)

2011年9月16日 星期五

For how long




for how long are we going to be heedless for the signs of All-llah Subhane wa ta’ala
For how long are we going to be busy with the Dunya
Busy making money,
chasing our dreams,
following our desires
We know my brothers and sisters that death is reality
you can’t run away from death
even if you were in a fortress with a wall built up high,
death is going to come and find you

Imagine your time is today,
What have you got to take back to Allah subhane wa ta’ala?
Have you repented for your sins?
For this temporary life,
you have given up eternal bliss
and eternal happiness!
life which never ends.

my dear brothers and sisters,
even if the hereafter was soil and mud
and this dunya was gold and silver,
still the hereafter would be better than this dunya
because it’s eternal

for reality is;
this dunya is mud and soil and the hereafter is gold and silver
and yet,
we choose this life over the next.

Are we asleep?
Why are we walking around like headless chickens?
We will be brought to account.
On the day,
When everyone will be a stranger to another
when your best friend in this dunya will be a stranger to you in the next.

When your mother is going to abandon you just to save herself,
the day when every small action that you ever did, you will be shown.
every atom weight of good
and every atom weight of evil
My dear brothers and sisters
This is the promised day of Allah Subhane wa ta’ala

Doesn’t your heart tremble with fear?
Knowing that you’ll be brought to account?
And how you will die
And that’s how you will be raised
That day
When a child’s hair will turn grey due to the shock and fear
What will be your excuse on that day

When your limbs, your own legs
are going to give witness against you
When your lips are going to be sealed
And your legs are going to speak and say:
“Ya Allah, he made me walk to this Haram”
And your own hands are going to say:
“Ya Allah, he used me to touch this haram”

On that day
my dear brothers and sisters
there is no refuge
except with Allah Subane wa ta’ala
There is no escape
So take heed before your time is up,

Ask Allah Subhane wa ta’ala to make us amongst the Saabiquns,
the group of people who race each other to good deeds
And these people will be closest to Allah Subhane wa ta’ala in the next life.

HAPPY MUSLIM HUSBAND & WIFE




When u marry a man, love him.
After u marry him, study him.
If he is honest, humour him.
If he is generous, appreciate him.
... When he is sad, cheer him.
When he is quarrelsome, ignore him.
If he is noble, praise him.
If he is confidential, encourage him.
If he is secretive, trust him.
If he is jealous, cure him.
If he favours society, accompany him.
When he deserves it, kiss him.
Let him think how well u understand him.
But never let him know that u manage him.